"Accepting The Reality" Vs. "Changing The Circumstances"

 I personally prefer changing the circumstances over accepting the reality. "Accepting the reality" is very pessimistic approach. Whereas "Changing our circumstances" is optimistic. Something could be done to improve the circumstances, gives us hope. It allows us to dream ... And one can dream big. One can put efforts to achieve our dreams, our goals. As long as our dreams do not hurt anyone, we are free to achieve them.  "Changing the circumstances" moves us forward. Whereas "accepting the reality" keeps us from moving forward. And regarding "Knowing the right place and the right time in life", may probably never happen, if you believe in "changing the circumstances" to be happy. Because changing the circumstances towards betterment is an ongoing process. It's very nature of "being ongoing" keeps us on our toes. It keeps us focused on our goals. And focused mind can achieve a lot !  If you believe in the philosophy that "Enjoying the journey is more important, than reaching the destination", then you will forever be in a happy state of mind while changing the circumstances.