- We can grow along with children, if children are cared properly. Especially when children start learning and if we learn along with them, it serves a great deal.
- Actually there is another thought process, that whenever a child is born, it is bound to grow. That is nature. But "grow" in what sense? That is dedicated human efforts.
- what exactly "child care" mean: Teaching them and supervising family values
- honesty
- truthfulness
- humility
- awareness
- no entitlement
- grateful
- Streamlining their studies/hobbies and supervising them for a few years
- Enabling them to interact with other society members and supervising for a few years
Actually spending time with a child can be a full time job for a few years. Nearly 7 or 8 years. After which when the children become aware of their own identity, they start getting little embarrassed of their parents' presence in front of their friends, if the parents can not keep up with the child's speed. In this case, the parents need to be "one step ahead" in the child's interest areas, which makes the child proud of his parents. For example: if the child is learning a sport, the parent needs to be a little more expert in sport than the child till 7 or 8 years. If the child is learning musical instrument, the parent need to be little more expert in that instrument than the child till 7 or 8 years. The child should be aware in his mind, that his parents are putting efforts on his growth. The child should not get a feeling of "entitlement". "Entitled" of parent's time.
